On this episode of the Woman Alive podcast, Tola-Doll Fisher and her guests explore a topic that may surprise you - Christian “mean girls”! Although the Church is largely seen as a refuge, a house of prayer and even a hospital for the broken-hearted, sadly this isn’t everyone’s experience. For some of us, church congregations have been riddled with gossip, judgement, social exclusion, cliques and popularity contests. Kindness is a fruit of the Holy Spirit, so why is this stereotypical high school culture going unchecked in Christian communities?

Shakira Peronet is a freelance copywriter and content creator. Originally from London, she now lives in Paris, after a Pandemic romance resulted in marriage. Her article for Woman Alive is the inspiration for the discussion we're having today. Read it here: https://www.womanalive.co.uk/opinion/im-a-repentant-mean-girl-i-used-to-feel-annoyed-when-church-friends-said-i-left-them-out-but-now-im-mindful-of-those-on-the-outskirts/13420.article and connect with Shakira on Instagram @shakirainparis

Jessica Stark is a social media influencer, broadcaster and writer, currently working at Premier Christian Radio as digital content lead. Originally from Scotland and now based in London, Jessica is also the daughter of Emma and David Stark, founders of the Global Prophetic Alliance and serves as a worship leader and prophetic minister. You can connect with Jessica on Instagram @j_e_s_s_i_c_a_h_o_p_e

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Released on 3 Nov 2025